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De-cluttering – why it is important  by Auntie K

Hi there, As winter settles in most parents’ thoughts turn to preparing for Christmas. I’m delighted to welcome parent consultant, the lovely Aunty K to my blog where she will share the importance of having a good clear out before Christmas. Enjoy…..

Aunty K

Bio: I am Kirsty, also known as Auntie K – a parent consultant based in Surrey. I have been working with young children and their families for over 20 years and I am also a mum of two myself. My work involves me supporting parents in all areas of parenting, from sleep, weaning and potty training to behaviour, mental health and getting children school ready – I literally cover all areas! I am often seen in the national press sharing my opinions, tips and advice and I have lots of useful information over on my website too –

Christmas is fast approaching and for some, like myself, there may be a child’s birthday looming too. For my family, this is a great opportunity to have a sort through of all the toys, books and games and to de-clutter. We tend to have a good sort through twice a year to keep on top of everything, which I highly recommend.

It is easy to get overwhelmed with toys, and children are notorious for telling you that they have to keep absolutely everything, but the reality is that in doing so, not only does your house become cluttered, your children become overwhelmed, which means that they struggle to play – their brains have gone into overdrive and they find it difficult to know what to play with, jumping from toy to toy, not knowing what to do next.

Research shows that, provided with fewer toys, kids will engage in longer periods of play and play more creatively, but the benefits don’t end there and here is why de-cluttering the toys in your home is important.

Less stress –

Physical clutter creates stress. This can reduce your ability to focus and can diminish how satisfied you feel in life. By reducing the number of toys within the home, you will not only be helping to decrease the levels of stress in your child but also yourself. It will also help both of you improve focus and satisfaction.

Less time tidying up –

Sounds obvious, I know, but having less, means less to clear away, which means more time for other things. You will also find that your child is more likely to help with tidying up if there is less to do.

Children will care for their possessions more –

Having less and feeling less overwhelmed will help your children to care about their possessions more, and take pride in keeping things tidy, which means they are more likely to tidy without prompting.

where to start-

You may be wondering where to begin. If you have a lot spread throughout the house, it can be hard, so here is what to do:

Pick one room at a time – Decide which room that you want to tackle first. Is it one of the kid’s rooms? Or perhaps the playroom? 

It is much easier to take each room, one at a time so start with where you feel needs sorting first.

Pick a time where you have time – De-cluttering can take hours, and it is best to finish a room on the same day that you have started, or you will run the risk of more clutter and less enthusiasm!

Pick a time where you can take the whole day if you need to, and where you can take your time – the aim is to make life less stressful, not more!

Get the kids to help – I think it is important for kids to help, not only so they learn vital life skills but so that they understand that it is important to de-clutter. You can explain that to have new toys/books/games, they have to get rid of some of the older ones. You could suggest to older children that can sell some of their things to make some money, but it is also important to give some things to others too.

Keep these questions in mind – 

  • ” Does my child play with this?” – think back throughout the year – how often have they played it?
  • ” Has my child outgrown this?” – Are there toys that they are now too old for? Nostalgia can play a part in keeping some toys, but they might not be getting anything out of toys that are more suited to a child two years younger
  • ” Does my child really love this?” – If the answer is yes, then keep. If no, get rid!
  • “Would my child realise that this is gone?” – When it comes to getting rid of toys, children often suddenly decide that they love everything. The reality is though, they seldom do, and those toys that you know they have shown no interest in for the last year, are very much going to be the ones that they will not miss.

If this article peaked your interest do take a look at the related guest post by the Mess Goddess and my post on how to get your child’s room ready for Christmas.

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2022 Interior Trends

completed living room

The overall theme for 2022 Interior Trends is unsurprisingly comfort. Bringing in nature, cosiness, rounded forms, sustainable furnishings, more individualised kitchens, spa like bathrooms, well equipped workspaces and multifunctional rooms and furniture is still our top priority as we are facing changing work patterns in the new normal. 

2022 Interior Trends: Biophilic Design

2022 Interiors trend: Biophilic design - using natural materials, colours and plants in this living room helped to bring the outdoors in and gives a sense of calm.
A recent living room design incorporating lots of family nick-nacks and personality. The clients wanted to bring nature and calm into this space.

Our search for nature, for bringing the outdoors in, naturally leads to the continuing trend for the use of natural and organic materials and for sustainable furniture and materials such as glass and cork, wicker. The 2022 interiors trend colour palette is also highly influenced by nature with various shades of green, blue and earthy tones combining with warmer neutrals such as beige to create our cocooned sanctuaries. Houseplants are a huge trend that will carry over into 2022 as people have realised the soothing wonder of biophilic design. Find out more about biophilic design here.

2022 Interior Trends: 70s Retro

A 2022 Interiors Trend concept of a fun, welcoming space.
A retro inspired multifunctional space filled with plants, light wood, orange accents and rounded forms. A very cosy, easy space.

The earthy colour palette gets carried through in the 70s retro 2022 interiors trend where oranges, browns and greens mingle with vintage pieces and simple forms to reimagine the 70s retro vibe. Think calm retro.

2022 Interior Trends: 90s Urban Revival

A look back at a 1990s living room design which inspires the 2022 Interiors Trend.
An inspirational 90s interiors using beige and earthy brown tones with punches of colour. Image

Another branch of 2022 interior trends is the Y2K Revival or 90s urban trend which is fun, bold and colourful and uses geometric shapes in a different way. This trend will see the return of blonde wood floors, white kitchens, the floral wallpaper trend of the past few years will continue as well as the use of pastel colours in accessories like cushions, throws and lamps.

2022 Interior Trends: New Minimalism

A Japandi/minimalist concept in line with 2022 Interiors Trends.
Strong lines, pale wood, a nod to Japanese and Scandinavian aesthetics.

The new minimalism trend carries on from the Japandi trend – calm, warm, cosy, and clean – the limited ornamentation and choice of just 1 or two materials in the space reflect our search for minimal consumption and sustainability. Somewhat reflected in the quest for zen bathrooms. Black accessories and pale wood furniture still abound to tie in with Japandi styling. White walls and pale floors are balanced with painted doors and trims. 

How to make 2022 Interior Trends work for you

There are elements of 2022 interior trends that can work for you, be it adding a round coffee table – changing out your cushions for more retro coloured ones or finding some vintage pieces to add character to your space.  By introducing a few pot plants and natural materials into your home your space will feel calmer and more connected to the outdoors. Simple rounded lines and warm neutral colours mixed with the colours of nature will add to that sense of soothing and calm which we all need to find in our own home sanctuaries.

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What is E-Design/online/remote interior design?

In this age of global pandemic where so many of us have been forced (or indeed allowed ) to work from home the benefits of technology are clear for us all to see. It is therefore natural that the interior design field has adapted to new technologies and E-Design /online/remote interior design is a fast growing area of the industry. So what is E-Design/online/remote interior design?

E-Design is a convenient, affordable and speedy way to get the guidance of a professional interior designer. E-design is tailored to a tech-savvy, budget – conscious, do -it-yourself generation. It is a collaborative process between the designer and their client where all the communication is through email, phone or video calls which gives you more flexibility in your schedule. Clients will handle the logistical aspects eg measuring your room, ordering items and installation, while the designer puts the look together and provides tools for them to be able to carry it out. 

The designer does all the product sourcing, decision making, solves layout issues and helps you visualise how your room could look – all remotely. It is great for those who need guidance and the impetus to get started. Thanks to technology, interior design services can now be completed without a designer ever having set foot in your home. E-design is typically a simpler, more laid back process with a quicker turnaround than traditional interior design.

E-designers create a digital copy of a room design based solely on the information you, the client, give them. They provide flat fee services that lend towards a budget- conscious clientele.

designed to nurture slogan


All e-designers work slightly differently but the main themes remain the same. It is a more collaborative process with the client shouldering the responsibility for sending measurements and photos to the designer and filling out a questionnaire before an online consultation. Once a purchase has been made, my process involves:

  1. Fill out the client profile and send me photos and measurements. Note pieces you would like to keep. Collaborate on a Pinterest/Houzz inspiration board or send in your inspiration board.
  2. Have a design consultation by video conference or phone.
  3. Approve the Brief. Receive your concept board, floor plan and clickable shopping list within 4 weeks.
  4. Shop at your convenience.
  5. Have a post-design styling consultation once everything has arrived.


As the E-Design process is a collaborative one it is a good idea to be prepared to help make the process smooth and to communicate as clearly as possible with your designer.

Set a Budget

Know how much you have to spend and don’t be shy about letting the designer know what it is – it is their job to make it work – within reason!

Set a Timescale 

Know how much time you have for the project, how much time you can live with the space out of action or when you have to be away. Remember a benefit of E-Design is that you can spend as long as you like making the purchases and adding the final touches.

Figure out your Style

Images from magazines or creating a Pinterest board of rooms and things that you like can be very helpful in narrowing down your style. This is important as it helps the designer know which type of style to start from. If you love everything and choosing is your problem the designer’s questionnaire and consultation should be of great help to you in narrowing down to find your style or styles.

Gather Inspiration

Images, samples, Pinterest Boards and collect them together. It’s important to think about what you like about the images and why you saved them. You should find themes and things that reoccur in the different images. It is then your designers job to pull these themes out and get to the essence of what it is you like and need from your project.


  • Be part of the team: E-Design works for anyone who wants to collaborate. If you can be forthcoming with your designer and not worry about offending them then E-Design is for you. Wonder if it would work for you? –then reach out a quick call should help, I love to chat so feel free to get in touch.
  • A quick turn around – the process involves one room at a time usually, so there is no pressure with the timeline: it’s up to you, the client, if you wish to purchase everything at once or to stagger the cost by buying in your own time. If you are time poor then E-Design is your answer.
  • Learn a bit more DIY or more about design as you follow the provided images and plans and shopping list to purchase your items and set up your space. The E-Design process teaches you and allows you to practice interior design.
  • No hidden costs: Anyone who likes to know how much they will be spending will find E-Design is for them. E-Designers usually charge a flat fee with no hidden costs or travel expenses to pay for.
  • E-design is more affordable than traditional design – because you are doing some of the work yourself (measuring and photography) you won’t have to pay your designer to do those things. Why pay a designer to do things that you can do? Most of your money can go towards the actual design.. interior designers used to be exclusively for the wealthy – E-Design has changed the game – here is a list of my services and fees.
  • You are not limited to designers in your area – You have more designers to choose from. Every E-Designer is available to you online via the wonder of the “interweb”.

And… oh, I do E-Design…. Isn’t that convenient? Click for more info.. or to schedule an informal chat contact me.

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Making your child’s room happier: 10 simple steps to make your child’s room a happier place

a light, bright, fun nursery concept with pops of orange and soft- edged furniture and circular accents.

When you ask an adult what makes their home a happier place, these themes crop up:

– having a sense of warmth/cosiness/ creativity

– a space that reflects your interests 

– a space you can retreat to

Would your kids want the same….? The answer is yes. You can help them to create a happier space by going through these 10 steps.

Step 1 -“chaos control” to make your child’s room a happier place

Clean and declutter their room, get them to help you so that they take ownership and ultimately take responsibility for the mess.  Everyone feels more stressed in a messy cluttered room so help put an end to it by making tidying up part of the daily routine and create place for everything to be tidied to. Use flexible storage that will evolve with your child’s needs. See an earlier post on how to declutter and take a look at The Mess Goddess’ Guest Blog for more on how to tackle decluttering.

a navy blue space themed boy's room with white furniture and Star Wars accents
Lots of flexible storage which will adapt as tastes change and develop creates a space for everything to be tidied away.

Step 2 – Let them get a Good night’s sleep

We all feel better after a good night’s sleep. A fundamental step towards greater happiness is to get more good quality sleep. This is especially true for children. (remember that colour can help with creating a soothing environment for sleeping) For a more detailed look at how your child’s room design can help them sleep take a look at my earlier post How to Help your Child to Sleep .

Ideally there would be no electronic devices in the bedroom or during the hour before bed. If they are in the bedroom try and keep them at least 1m away from the bed with no blue lights from screens or chargers showing. 

Cosy, soft enveloping textures create that nest like feeling that will help your little one fall asleep so invest in natural fibre sheets and duvet sets. 

Control the light in the room -consider black out curtains for daytime naps and bright evenings as well as halogen reading lights at bedtime and other artificial light sources like nightlights to create an adaptable cosy space where your child will be able to pursue the things that makes them happy.

Ah… nothing is as sweet as a sleeping child! (Photo from Shutterstock.)

Step 3 – Use colour to change the mood

Over the years there have been many books devoted to colour therapy and the influence that colour has on our moods and the shapes the way we use space.  It can help with concentration, sleep, creativity and yes, you guessed it, happiness. You can use colour to create either soothing spaces with mellow tones or uplifting ones using vibrant yellows, greens and oranges. These brights can be on accessories instead of on whole walls to provide that “Pop” of colour.

Step 4- Get them to make their beds

According to CNBC, socio-economist Randall Bell, Ph.D., has been studying high achieving people for over 25 years to find out what they all have in common. He and his team surveyed “more than 5,000 people across the world, including professionals, students, retirees, the unemployed and multi-millionaires.” They examined factors from writing thank you notes to eating dinner together as a family each night. One key factor that many had in common was making their bed every morning. According to Dr. Bell making your bed each morning puts your mind into a productive mindset, and can spark other productive tasks throughout the day.

Author Charles Duhigg writes about this in his New York best-selling book titled, “The Power of Habit”. He mentioned a study conducted by a researcher from Duke University in 2006 that found that more than 40% of the actions people perform each day aren’t actual well-informed decisions, but rather, habits. When habits pile on top of each other each day, they can have an enormous impact on our health, productivity, financial security, and happiness.

Getting your children to make their beds first thing in the morning as part of a daily routine will form a good habit that should help give them a sense of achievement and drive to see more things through and achieve more throughout their day. Looking at a made bed is inviting and makes you feel happier than looking at a messy bed which could contribute to stress.

Step 5 – Add Plants to make your child’s room a happier place

There are many benefits to including plants in your child’s room. Plants can help to boost mood as well as help to clean the air. We seem to be programmed as humans to like nature so bringing some of it inside to care for and look at is of great benefit to our wellbeing as well as that of our children. To help make your child’s room happier add lots of plants.

For a fuller introduction to Biophilic design go to an earlier guest post by the Benholm group .

Step 6 – Add Natural light and fresh air 

This ties in with the principals of Biophilic design but needs an extra mention. Make the most of natural light and you will find that it helps to lift everyone’s mood. And children are drawn to it. Natural light will help them regulate their circadian rhythms as well so this will help them get more sleep at night. Opening windows and letting fresh air in lets out the mustiness and adds to the sense of calm, fresh, happiness too. The connection with the outdoors which we subconsciously crave is strengthened by these tiny touches – greatly boosting our happiness levels.

Step 7- Surround them with things they love

For kids that could be books, toys, photos of family, their artworks, treasures, fond memories, things that give them joy and show their personality. These will obviously evolve and change over time as interests wain.

Step 8- Layer lighting 

Layering lighting is an important important component in Feng Shui. Which seeks to balance our energy within the home. The use of a mixture of lighting such as dimmers, pendants and lamps and different bulbs,  such as halogen and task lighting combine for multi purpose use of the space at different times of the day. Think about the way your child uses their room and try and future proof a bit so that you have as many lighting options as you may need for play, study, make up, reading in bed or gaming for instance.

Step 9- Create good flow 

How you arrange furniture can influence how well your family connects. Encourage good use of their belongings and space by positioning toys near a space big enough to play in, books near a cosy spot and so on. This follows on from the decluttering and tidying up that will have taken place. A place for everything and everything in its place is a really helpful mantra to keep in mind when thinking about children’s rooms and is key to helping to make your child’s room happier.

Step 10- Soft edged furniture can make your child’s room happier

 If you do have need of extra furniture or storage solutions choose soft edged,  curved pieces which are soothing to the eye and make your body and mind relax. Our brain tends to associate sharper corners with getting hurt.

a light, bright, fun nursery concept with pops of orange and soft- edged furniture and circular accents.
A concept for a happy nursery with subtle soft – edged furniture including a round side table, rounded angular lamps and rounded cot. Combine this with pops of fun bright orange for a playful, fun feeling

Other tips for  making your child’s room happier

Scent is a very powerful sense and research shows that floral scents used around the home can help boost happiness. So you could try using a diffuser in your child’s room to promote happy smells.

Making friends with your neighbours and feeling more connected to your community also contribute to your sense of happiness – so allowing your children to play with the neighbourhood children and make friends locally really can help forge that sense of belonging and boost social interactions which we humans – social animals that we are, crave. Hopefully you are able, in this time of social distancing, still able to chat over the garden fence or wave to each other from across the road or post letters to each other to build on your relationships within your neighbourhood.

My final advice for helping your children to make their rooms happier places

Be happy with what you have, make the best of what you have but don’t spend your time striving for perfection.

It is clear that as long as you are happy with your home and find it comfortable and cosy then you will be happy in your home. Do not keep striving for the perfection found in social media – find your family’s happy place.

I hope these tips help you and your children make some positive changes to your space especially now as we are spending more time than ever in our homes due to social distancing measures. Pick and choose which changes to make and which changes would work for your child. I’d love to hear from you and see the changes you’ve made to make your children’s rooms happier.

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Home Learning – 5 Practical Tips

The last thing that I think parents need right now is more pressure. Pressure to provide the perfect instagram-ready home learning space for their child, with the colour-coordinated stationery set and soothing wall colour. 

Many families are facing really hard times and my aim here is to offer some advice to suit all families with children, regardless of your socio-economic status or the size of your home. With the obvious spatial constraints of city dwelling and the all too-common lack of good internet in more spacious countryside homes, we are all facing different challenges. My aim here is to try to offer a variety of practical and realistic solutions to help you create the best environment for home learning, so that your children can feel better throughout this difficult period. 

1. A space for all

Identifying that a space is theirs is key to letting your child settle into it, to take ownership of it, and later on, accountability for it. This space could be the kitchen table, one end of the dinning table, a child sized desk in the playroom, a fold-down desk in the hallway, a coffee table in the living room – anywhere with a table and chair where they can sit comfortably. Many children are lucky enough to already have a desk in their room which, no doubt, is far from study-ready.

My son’s work station is the kitchen table, because his room is not set up for a desk yet. Offer a few choices dotted around the house and the garden – a cosy reading area, a sunlit table outside (dream on!). It might be that it will be easier to work with them sitting next to you so that you can help with questions and not have to go to them every few minutes. Your child could be happiest sitting in the kitchen while you cook. 

Should you need to create a study or work zone from scratch this can be done very economically and in a space-saving way. Consider overlooked spaces, which could house a workstation such as hallways, window sills which can be extended and turned into great desks or try a wall mounted floating desk in the corner of the kitchen or living room.

In fact my desk is in the living room built into the recess next to the fireplace, I had shelves installed above for all my work related books and I even store samples and drawing equipment in baskets. It’s not instagram ready, but it’s real. This is where I work, not all the time as I like to change it up, especially if the sun is streaming into the bay window – I sit at the dinning table looking out at it. Figure out what works for you. 

2. Declutter for Home Learning

To start off with, any space in which you intend to work needs to be as clear of distraction as it can realistically be. Clear the decks – have a spring clean, declutter – get your children to do their own work stations and empower them to make decisions about what stays and what goes.

3. Spruce it up a bit

Make the space inviting: add a poster or inspirational quote, a comfy chair, a family photo, get them to make a collage of their favourite things – let your children help you to “decorate” their workspace. Do paint if you like – it could totally be the right time for a spruce up in a lovely calming and relaxing colour like light blue, blush, grey or soft green. Think of bringing the outside in – with the colours and textures you use as well as pot plants. You could also use chalkboard paint for art, study and general organisational lists if you have the space.

4. Get organised for Home Learning

Create a space for everything to be tidied away. This is so vital I can’t stress it enough. All our home spaces are now likely to be multifunctional so putting things away after we have finished with them so that they don’t add to the sense of clutter which contributes to stress and that uneasy feeling is super important for every member of the family. Putting work away and having a clear space will also create that mental break – school is over for the day, time for fun. Bins, baskets, a mug for pencils, magazine files for worksheets – keep it simple and work with the space you have. You might consider purchasing some small storage items to get things organised. For more on organising check out my blog on getting your child’s room ready for Christmas Getting your Child’s Room Ready for Christmas and the Mess Goddess’s guest blog Organisational Tips for the Whole Family.

As I said, my son works at the kitchen table, there are two crates on the end of the table that contain his workbooks and worksheets and all the stationery and supplies he needs. Work comes out, gets used and then goes back in the crate and hey presto, it’s the kitchen table again. We also get out a plastic table cloth and use the kitchen table for art and model building- the art supplies are stored inside the bench seating. Tidying up is a great habit to learn and it could be a wonderful positive outcome of this time at home.

Wherever your child studies needs to feel quiet, cosy, warm, uncluttered and distraction free. Make the best of what you have. If you have time you can create an interactive and engaging space for your child to learn – remember they may already have this in the form of their bedroom. 

Once they’ve got their workstation(s) set up and they’re working away remember to use movement breaks and sensory paths (assault courses)  in between subjects or when children start to get a bit fidgety and fractious (this is also worth keeping in mind for the adults of the household too).

5. Spaces can change over time

Places can be different things at different times. When space is a constraint, don’t forget you can repurpose your space throughout the day and night. Change it up – just like with our kitchen table come breakfast bar come work station come art studio come dinner table. Consider sharing your home office with your children, if you are lucky enough to have one, you could be in a shift pattern or working side by side. Make the living room a movie theatre for family night.

Pre-school Home Learning

I thought that toddlers and pre schoolers deserved a special mention in that their needs for home learning are much less sedentary.

As pre-schoolers won’t sit still for more than a few minutes talking about their desks seems silly but a place to sit comfortably is very important for developing good manual dexterity, mark making and handwriting.  Take a look at this great set up of a mum working with her daughter, who is sat at her mini desk, next to her.

Pre-schoolers learn from play and need to choose from activities set up for them. With a bit of prep first thing in the morning you can set up a few simple activities around the house for them – it’ll become obvious as to how useful this is throughout the day as they discover new things to do. Activity stations include a water/sand tray which could be in the garden – I used to set ours up in the kitchen and fill it with warm water, bubbles, glitter, ice, animals – changing it up is great for them to be able to explore more widely. Construction toys, small world toys, music, a reading area, games like threading, arts and crafts and play dough are all pre-schooler pleasers that will help with their development and give you a few moments to help other children or work or to just sit!

Remember to display their work as it really helps younger children to develop a sense of achievement. Use your whole house for learning by cooking with them in the kitchen, den building in the living room, or having cosy story time in their bedroom.

We are our children’s main teachers as they learn from us all the time, so just by spending time playing board games or cooking with them, they will learn – don’t be hard on yourself that you haven’t finished the school activities for the day.

Primary school Home Learning

Primary school aged children will likely need some help with their learning and will happily do some learning independently so sitting together, or having them in the same room as you is probably the best solution. 

Secondary school Home Learning

Secondary school children will be more independent and will need to sit quietly away from distraction to study independently. Allowing phones and headphones is probably a good idea so that they can be sociable and less distracted from the goings on in the background around the home. 

The near future

My advice for the coming months would be to keep things fluid – don’t put extra stress on yourselves – you will all find a rhythm for your new normal. You will need to make changes to  routines as the novelty of home learning wears off. Be flexible and adapt to moods and feelings as they happen – finding space for everyone in your home is a bit like a juggling act on a timer – or hot-desking, but you can make it work. Your home should offer a reprieve from outside stresses, make it cosy, welcoming and relaxing – small changes can go a long way. For more take a look at my blog post on Making Your Child’s Room Cosy for Winter .

I’d love to see your children’s workspaces, mess and all – to wake designers up a bit and remind them that design needs to be functional as well as beautiful. Feel free to comment below on anything else you think that I could help with during this tricky time.

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2020 Interior Design Trends for Children’s Rooms

My series of spring blogs will be delving into the interior design trends for children’s rooms for 2020. 

As nature comes out from under it’s shelter and the days start to get longer I start planning brighter and more colourful rooms! I think it is clear that the natural world provides most of our inspiration for interiors and this notion has been embraced in 2020.

The main trend that I am seeing coming to the fore for 2020 is nature inspired interiors. These take many forms:

Subtle small leaf printed wallpaper

Muted rainbows

Boho safari

The colour green 

The colour blue

Natural materials


As well as the above styles there has for obvious reasons been a turn towards reusing and repurposing items you already own – a lick of paint, a new table top and hey presto you’ve gotten more life out of the piece. This is environmentally friendly and wallet friendly too. You also won’t feel too bad when your little darling draws all over their cupboard in permanent pen!

Colours that will trend are:

mint/cantaloupe or coral/citrus pops of colour

Walls will be:

Geometric paint designs

Dark floral wallpaper

Subtle scandi

Curves will start to show up 

Dark cots will make their presence felt

A parallel trend for more dramatic blues and greens with a luxe feel will carry on from last year.

Many of these trends will be used together – natural furniture with cantaloupe walls and splashes of mint for eg. 

Biophilic Design – bringing plants inside for health and wellbeing.

Biophilic design is the concept used to increase your connectivity to the natural environment. It affirms that bringing the outside in is soothing and beneficial.

One of the 2020 interior design trends for children’s rooms is biophilic design and it feeds into the use of colour palettes and materials based on nature. Next month I am pleased to say that I have a guest blog from The Benholm Group, a family-run business based in Falkirk, Central Scotland who specialise in a wide range of plant-related services for many commercial customers.  Mainly focusing on the Corporate Office market sector and the Hospitality market sector, they also work within various other sectors too, such as retail, education, health and the public sector. You will undoubtedly have seen their work if you have been to Edinburgh, Glasgow, Aberdeen or even the Edinburgh festival. At the heart of their business are the concepts of biophilic design. Their blog will be introducing the concepts of biophilic design to help us all get nature into our homes. 

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Christmas Organisation Tips For The Whole Family – Guest Post from the Mess Goddess herself, Tania Mellis.

A Little Intro to Tania….

I love the Mess Goddess’ ethos ” I consider what I do as a form of art and empowerment combined with efficiency and practicality.” Her skills in decluttering and simplifying your life are really worthwhile and she has many tips to share which are really applicable to your child’s room, maybe even more so at this time of year as we all prepare for a new influx of toys, clothes and books into our already crowded children’s (and family) spaces. Read on for her take on decluttering to help the whole family get ready for the festive season.

1.Have a clear out and Donate to charity : Try the Bin Bag Game

A fabulous idea for the whole family, to get them motivated to let go of unwanted items – PLAY THE BIN BAG RACE!

You will need :

  • one bin bag for each member of the family.
  • a kitchen timer.

The Object of the game is for each person to collect as many unwanted things as possible that they would like to donate to charity. The person who collects the most things say within five minutes wins a prize. This is an exercise to teach children about charity and people in need, so I recommend keeping the prize simple – like an extra half hour before bed, or they can choose their special meal for dinner, you get the idea.  

Whilst we are clearing out……

 2. Tidy your Wardrobes – take all of the plastic and wire hangers out.  

Toss all the plastic hangers and keep wire hangers for craft.  A great tip in the future start saying no in stores if you are offered hangers!  Plastic hangers are not good for clothes, the environment and make our wardrobes look messy!  A great inexpensive alternative is the popular velvet covered hanger. These come in lots of wonderful colours and really can make your wardrobe look sensational. Choose round shoulder hangers for women’s clothes and the larger ones for men, you can also get children’ ones. Below are some of my favourite shaped velvet hangers.  Remember some brands are better quality then others and as they are used each day for years it is better to invest in a better-quality hanger.

Most people are going to need at least 100!  Yup, 100!  Most clothes fare much better if they are hung rather than folded into a drawer.  They have air flow around them, hanging keeps the creases out and it is much easier for you to see what you have in your wardrobe. Hang t-shirts, vest tops, jeans, everything you have space for.  Make sure to have one coat hanger for each item of clothing.  Why you ask?  This will help you to adopt the one in, one out concept. Each time you buy a new item of clothing take some out of your wardrobe and give to charity. Also – keep a box at the bottom of your wardrobe to put unwanted/charity items in.

Below is a recent wardrobe makeover I did in London.  We let go of lots of items, to charity and friends.  Purchased new hangers – purple in this case!  And banished all over wire and plastic hangers.

For the longevity of your clothes it is imperative to look after them and hanging them correctly is the start.  Don’t over pack your clothes, leave space in between so each item can breathe. Never leave your clothes inside the dry cleaner’s plastic! If you have delicate items that need extra protection invest in cotton suit covers. Always use the correct hangers for different items.  

  • For sweaters – padded hangers
  • Coats – wooden hangers
  • Dressers/blousers etc.- Velvet

3. Reuse, Repurpose and Gift 

So many things can be recycled: why not make fabric covered hangers for Christmas gifts, this is so simple the kids can help too!

All you need is some wire scissors, hangers & fabric.  As you will have collected lots of clothes from playing the bin bag game you will probably have a sheet or some clothes like a man’s shirt or a cotton dress you can use.  

Cut strips of fabric, I would say not more than 2cm wide.  The length depends on where the fabric is coming from. Start at the neck of the wire hanger and tie the strip and knot around the neck of the hanger. Then begin wrapping it around and around the hanger until it is covered.  It must be really tight, or it won’t last. I once wrapped an incense stick inside, so my hanger had a lovely sent. Once wrapped, the tie a knot at the neck and I suggest tying a lovely ribbon to cover over it.

I love making these hangers, it is so simple, it creates something beautiful and practical, it is recycling, it teaches the children the idea of gifting a heartfelt gift, not wasting money and so much more.

 Another brilliant idea are these card displays made from hangers. We are only limited by our imagination.  And best of all they are inexpensive.

Below is a picture of a card display made with wire hangers. This one was made by

All you need is:

  • wire hangers,
  • washi tape,
  • small wooden pegs,
  • a ribbon. 

For more ideas with coat hangers visit my blog

4. Find Storage Solutions that Work for You – Lego Storage Cubes

I absolutely love these Lego Storage containers, they are fabulous for children’s rooms and for parents too!

I have my apple mac phone leads etc in one small white one which is £9 on Amazon! 

They come in several sizes and stack nicely on top of each other.  They are a must in the home for children’s and adult toys!

5. What to keep and what to let go

As our homes are so small in the UK we are often forced to keep children’s toys in their bedrooms. It’s not only toys & books but broken toys as well as toys and books that are no longer age appropriate and craft and school work all mixed in together -all  in a mess!  

The first thing I do is establish what items are being kept for sentimental reasons.  Often there are a lot!  So why are we keeping things that have such sentimental value in such a disorganised way where they will get damaged? Does this sound familiar?

Here are a few ideas to help you store your sentimental clutter safely where you will get more enjoyment from it:

Make photo books:

How about making a Photo Book of your child’s Art & Craft? Not only have you solved the problem of all the bits of paper laying around and stashed in drawers – you will have a beautiful book to cherish forever and order another couple as they make perfect Christmas presents!

New ways to keep old soft toys

Broken, often smelly and with so many memories attached!  I came across a wonderful article recently about a fellow Australian, Geoffery Ricardo, an Artist.  He has come up with the most wonderful way to keep memories of a Teddy Bear that we can no longer keep.  He applies a light coat of paint to the front of the Teddy & then presses it against craft paper!  Genius!  Then you can get your camera out, take a photo of Teddy, a photo of the print, and these go into the book or you can frame the print and hang it in your child’s room and say good bye to the smelly Teddy.

Perspex boxes

I love this, it’s one of my favourites. Your child’s first pair of shoes would look beautiful in one and they are not expensive! They have many uses and can look very stylish.


Finally, while  organising a child’s room I find so many pencils that I could sink the titanic with them!How many pencils do children need?  One packet, one packet of felt tips and maybe one pack of crayons.  I think the best way to store them is in a clear container, I recommend letting go of pencil cases.  Use glass glass jars to store your pencils etc.  You can can put them in individual jars i.e. pencils in one, felt tip in another, crayons another or my personal favourite – Colour code them.  All red in one jar, green, black etc.  Beautiful it makes a real statement!  And before you think that charity shops want your old pencils and pens, they do not!  There are many charities who want donations of old pens and pencils such as

Tania, The Mess Goddess’ strength lies in her ability to combine concepts of eastern simplicity and style with practical organisation, spacial-creation and functional storage design. She is always thrilled when a client is amazed that “it all fits”. Tania wants her clients’ homes to not only, look stylish and beautiful, but also, to work well. To find out more about her services browse her website 

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7 Ways to Get Your Child’s Room Ready for Christmas

It is important to have a good clear out a couple of times a year when you child is quite young, maybe less when they get a bit older and stop growing out of things as quickly. I find using landmarks like Christmas and birthdays is really helpful to keep me on track.

As I have said before ( and will say again and again) the key to your kids room being tidy is not only to provide them with a space for everything but also to get them involved – get them to learn to tidy up as part of their daily ritual, even as part of playing so that it is ingrained and then it is normal and something they will do for themselves from a surprisingly early age.

That said, the big C is around the corner – yes Christmas is less than 60 days away as I write this…. This still gives you and your child plenty of time to get ready and make space. In this modern world space seems to be something we all crave and it really is quite easy to achieve even with kids and their stuff all around the house!

To make space in preparation of new toys arriving whether for Christmas or birthdays try these simple tips:

1- Have a big clear out

Be environmentally friendly in this – don’t just take everything to the dump. Pass on, regift, upcycle, reuse, repurpose and donate to charity. As you begin to pare down your child’s belongings have several boxes to sort the items you are clearing out into to. Your child needs to help you in this process, it will help them move on and appreciate their role in the world – “so and so’s little brother will love that”, “these should fit so and so”.

Having flexible storage is vital so that you can adapt your child’s storage as they grow. Photo credit Shutterstock.

2- Move things around 

Go through the toys you are keeping, if they have broken or have lost parts do you still want to keep them? You might find that the items you are keeping will fit into your existing storage in a better way so move things around and make the best use of drawers, boxes and shelves you already own.

3- Put everything you have away

A place for everything and everything in it’s place. This old adage really is helpful for kids and adults alike. Put everything you are keeping away in it’s own spot.

4- Make as much as possible accessible at child height

So that they can reach to get the items out and most importantly put them away again by themselves.

Getting your child's room ready for Christmas means having fle
in this room the low lying shelves are accessible to young ones and items can be moved around to rotate the toys that can be accessed. Photo credit Shutterstock.

5- Let them keep what is important to them in a special “treasures” place.

My son keeps little things he’s found or made and kinder egg models together with shells, lego minifigures and gifts from party bags in an old printers box on his bedside table. Each item is special to him in some way and tells a story and they are easily accessible and collected together they create a great display. Having this helps keep a lid on the clutter.

6- Consider a new layout to give more storage

Try rearranging furniture or buying another bookshelf to give a bit of breathing space so that the toy collection can have space to grow into and still be tidy.

7- Try toy rotation

If there is no more space to be had for more furniture try putting some toys away in the attic or hallway closet and swapping them out in a few months’ time to keep them exciting and new to your child.

By applying these simple steps to your child’s space you should not feel overwhelmed by a sea of toys and kid-clutter on the run up to Christmas – and you should feel the benefits into the year as the new toys and gifts find their spaces in your child’s room.

For more on this subject try reading How to declutter your child’s room after Santa’s Visit

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Lego Display Ideas – 6 Ways to Display LEGO

Your little one has been busy creating and now it’s tidy -up time but they’re not finished with their build…. what do you do?… offer them some LEGO display space for ongoing and finished projects.

In this post I will be tackling the thorny issue of LEGO display ideas – whether these are shop bought LEGO sets or purely imaginative one-off masterpieces they’ll always come a tidy -up time when your child will say they haven’t finished playing with this LEGO build and want to keep it to continue playing next time…what to do…?

After a lovely long fun-packed summer break I’m back with the third and final instalment in my LEGO posts, hope you find it useful and do let me know how you display your LEGO.

I’m not a huge fan of purpose built LEGO furniture (of which there is a lot on the market) I find it too clunky and large and one-use. It’s my aim to show you how a few additions to any child’s room can lead to plenty of LEGO display ideas for your child’s LEGO creations (as long as you’ve tackled that other thorny issue of how to store your child’s LEGO see my previous blogs for help with that! How to get your child to tidy their LEGO LEGO storage: How I sorted my son’s LEGO so that he would tidy it up by himself )

Purpose-made LEGO containers on display

There are many different “fancy” purpose-made LEGO containers on the market. you can find heads, giant blocks, really really giant blocks and LEGO mini figure cases. These don’t meet LEGO storage needs in our house (which we have met using a different method see my previous post) but do offer a lovely opportunity for display. A combo of different coloured and sized bricks would be ideal to make a statement on a shelf in your child’s room and to store some extra pieces. We have 3 smaller LEGO storage blocks which are currently being used for Ninjago minifigs!

Shelves: the ultimate way to display LEGO

Whether they be floating shelves, a bookcase or  repurposed furniture, shelves make a great LEGO display as long as you apply some order. For instance no loose LEGO on the shelves and maybe organise by theme?

Our LEGO shelves with LEGO tape
Our LEGO display shelves with LEGO tape along the fronts… you can see why the stackable baseplates are on my wishlist- the bottom Star Wars shelf could do with a bit of organisation!

Obviously an adjustable shelving system (again Ikea have numerous in different styles from sleek white to mid-century industrial wood and metal) would work well for this but realistically how often are you going to move around your child’s shelves and all the LEGO on them? Adjustable shelving is great for future proofing but maybe not essential as part of your immediate LEGO storage needs.

Having glass doors would keep the dust away, but does impede access – and make sure the doors are safety glass to prevent injuries! IKEA do offer a number of glass doored shelving options which can easily be adapted into LEGO use – maybe even putting great works on display in the living room or family room. I’d avoid the kitchen as LEGO is hard enough to clean without the added joy of grease.

In my son’s room I’ve accessorised our shelves with…

LEGO tape for LEGO display

LEGO tape
Lego Brick base tape – great for displaying minifigs, will stick anywhere and is available in many colours from Life Changing Products

Adding Lego tape to shelving or walls or any surface really adds another dimension to your LEGO display as it helps keep track of mini figures pretty easily. it comes in a roll which you cut to the correct length then simply pull the backing tape off and stick. it comes in fun colours and I’ve found it a great help in tackling LEGO organisation!

LEGO minifigs on display using LEGO tape
I just love how easy this tape is… You can create a great and ever-changing display with it!

Stackable baseplates

Base plates that can stack to make the most of the shelving and make the most of the height of shelves. The stackable baseplates are adaptable and easy to put up and take down as your little one’s creations evolve. They great for creating little scenes and adding height. They are on my Christmas list this year!

Make useful things as part of your LEGO display

We tend to make use of some LEGO around the house eg pen holders and key chains/tidies charging stations. Who would have though that mini figures make the perfect charging stations? Or that a LEGO block glued to a key chain can help you keep your keys from getting lost at home?

Take a look at Matthew Hughes’ blog for some great ideas for using LEGO to organise your technology.

Here is an amazing instructables LEGO Minifigures clock which is functional and a great way to display minifigs.

LEGO Mini Figure display

There are many beautiful mini figure display cases available such as this great frame but as mentioned above I do like the flexibility of the LEGO tape and shelving as collections and builds grow and tastes change: flexibility is key.

This might be my favourite of all the official LEGO display cases as it is two tier with a removable clear cover so that your child can play with their LEGO then display it easily and it keeps the dust off. It also has a removable background so your child can draw their own background to their LEGO scene.

I hope this post has helped you with your LEGO display ideas and hopefully made you realise that you don’t need to go out and purchase new purpose-made LEGO display furniture but that you can use simple shelving and a few tricks to make the most of what you already have. Let me know how you get on….

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LEGO storage: How I sorted my son’s LEGO so that he would tidy it up by himself

Our LEGO storage drawers
Our LEGO storage drawers with base plate glued onto for added display space…

To continue my series on LEGO, which began last month with How to get your child to tidy their LEGO , I felt I should share the categories and storage units I used to sort and storage my son’s LEGO most of which was handed down to him from my brother in one huge overflowing archiving box.

We have a 12 drawer plastic unit like this with drawers that can be removed for easy playing and clearing up  as the LEGO storage in my son’s room. As his room is pretty small and we don’t have the luxury of a playroom, a tower, which takes up less surface area, seemed a great solution to our LEGO storage needs. Also you can add another set of drawers as the collection grows.

Here’s how I sorted my brother’s old Lego, which included lots of sets (just that we didn’t know which) and some technic Lego. I spent 7hrs sorting an archive box full to the brim of Lego!




My then 4 year old was able to find the pieces he needed and we were able to reconstruct the sets my brother had AND my son was able to tidy up, with help at first, then with questions (which drawer does this go in?) Until he graduated to being responsible for his own LEGO collection at the grand old age of 5.

Unsorted box of Lego
My son discovering his uncle’s box of unsorted LEGO.

I still need to get him to break up models he has made once in a while as he runs out of space but generally the Lego in our house is under control. Here’s how I broke it down… 

My categories:

Transport drawer
1- Transport pieces

Wheels drawer
2- LEGO Wheels

Mini figures drawer
3 – Mini figures and accessories ( though his Ninjago figures are in a separate LEGO brick box)

single width bricks drawer
4- Single width Bricks

Flat 2 x wide bricks
5- Flat 2 x Wide Bricks

Regular 2 x Wide Brick drawer
6- Regular 2 x Wide Bricks

Crazy Drawer full of unique pieces
7- “Crazy Drawer” for all the special pieces

Windows and architectural pieces drawer
8- Windows and Architectural pieces

Architectural pieces Drawer
9- Architectural Pieces

Slopped pieces Drawer
10- Slopes

Tiny pieces and vegetation
11- Tiny Pieces and Vegetation

Flats and Plates Drawer
12- Flats and Plates

A closer study of the weird pieces in the crazy drawer led me to figure out which sets my brother had as they were pretty specialised. I googled the parts and found the instructions, sifted through the organised lego to find the pieces and then we built the sets. These then needed to be displayed as my son wanted to play with them… but that is another story (see my next post on how to display Lego).

So far the Lego storage system I have set up is working even with the addition of more LEGO sets at birthdays and Christmas and whenever the grandparents are in town! The main reasons it works is that it is flexible, it fits the space and is simple enough for a soon to be 7 year old to figure out where everything goes and to not be daunted by too many decisions when faced with tidying up.

I hope that I’ve helped you to decide on how to tackle your LEGO mountain…. how is your LEGO sorted? Do you prefer keeping it in one big box so that your child gets the fun of sifting through it? Do let me know…

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How to declutter your child’s room after Santa’s visit

tidy room from shutterstock
Use simple boxes and baskets to keep like with like.

The key to having a clear-out of a child’s room is to get them to help make the decisions about what comes and goes. It’ll help them feel empowered and learn how to make decisions and stick to them. You can get rid of things in a variety of ways including fixing/mending, recycling, charity shop donations and selling on. Are you really going to fix or mend it? If not, throw it out. Remember to clean  surfaces and toys as you go around the room.

At the heart of this process is teaching your kids how to care and respect their belongings so that they want to look after them and keep them in good condition.

Start out by throwing out items that are broken or unusable or have pieces missing. I like to start at one side of the room and work my way up from the floor and around the room. This way you get to see progress quite quickly as the floor is cleared and your little ones can experience the clean up quicker too since they are small and spend a lot of time playing on the floor. Then get a bag for toys and books that your children have outgrown that could be sold or sent to the charity shop.

After this clear out you should find that the toys you do have might fit into storage units and boxes in better ways now that there is more space. This is where boxes and drawers come into their own as very versatile storage options. New toys from Santa might fit into existing storage solutions or you may need to giggle things around a bit or go all out and get more storage!Decide what to keep. Include your child in the process but have the power of veto.

Find a space for everything that you are keeping. Put what you have kept away –  everything should have it’s place. Be sure to leave or create space for the new arrivals! Remember it is easiest to store like with like.


Try and make everything accessible at child height so that your children can pull things out and, more importantly, put things back themselves.


Give them a space for their “treasures” (or clutter) my son has an old empty printer’s box with all the divisions for the different letter blocks which he uses for displaying and then playing with his treasures, including kinder egg models, things he’s found or made. Each one has a story and is special to him and he can easily get them down to play with them. If it doesn’t fit in the shelf though it has to be put away so that we keep a lid on clutter in his room.


You could also do some toy rotation by putting away some older toys and some new gifts and then bringing them out again in a few months time. This helps keep kids interested and also means they don’t have to have all their stuff in their room at once, helping it stay tidier.

To maintain this neater more clutter-free, tidy room you need to encourage your child to tidy up for themselves. Make it a game.. who can put the most cars into the right box? do a countdown or somehow engage them in the process. Make your children responsible for tidying up after themselves. Start young, say when they are 12 months old and help them with sorting and tidying, then by the age of three they should be independent enough to tidy their room or what they have been playing with by themselves with a bit of guidance from you. Have regular clearing out sessions so that your children get used to letting go of items they no longer need.

By applying these simple methods to your child’s space you should not feel overwhelmed by a sea of toys and kid-clutter after the onslaught of Christmas. Give your child space to thrive.


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6 Easy Ways to add style to your child’s room

shutterstock_1049222219 scandi/sherbert room

As a former nursery practitioner and mum to a 6 year old I know a few tricks to keep the toys at bay and to make  your kids rooms more stylish. Believe it or not “a place for everything and everything in it’s place” really does help children to relax and grow more confident. Here are a few easy tips to help you to easily  inject some style into your child’s room. We shall keep tackling the clutter later….


1- Choose a palette

Deciding on a colour scheme can come from all sorts of inspiration, like your child’s favourite tv show or ice cream or an interest like space or horses. Choose a family of colours that go well together and a background colour and punchy highlight colour. Controversial as this may be I don’t hold with monochrome rooms for little ones, sure lead with black and white but add  punchy yellow or turquoise or orange accent.


2- Accents

Find or make accents in your chosen colour palette. These could include storage baskets, curtains, bed linens, toys… they will help to give your palette definition. They also make it easier to transform your room later (or even seasonally) by changing your soft furnishings.


3- Lighting

Often an afterthought, lighting is very important. Have a couple of different light sources in your child’s room for different moods and activities. Task lighting at a desk or bedside table,   night lights and main pendants all have a role to play in a child’s world too. remember to choose fittings that suit your feel and colour scheme for the room.


4- Plants

Bring the outside in. Children can benefit from plants in their rooms for so many reasons. They can help filter the air in a city environment, can encourage children to be responsible by looking after them and help keep children in touch with nature. Put plants at child height (from when your child is at least 3 years old) and up high to give them extra sensory stimulus from the touch and smell of house plants.


5- Displays of treasures/ vignettes

Get your child involved in displaying their treasures and favourite bits and bobs. This encourages their sense of self by providing physical reminders of past doings and helps them to forge connections with their surroundings while taking pride in their room. Help curate collections so that they don’t take over and try to suggest sorting using different criteria such as colour or a theme. But remember it is their room! In my son’s room he has an old printer’s tray which he uses to display all his Kinder Egg toys and anything special like rocks and shells he has collected. From time to time it does need a tidy but it generally survives as a rotating curation of what is special to him. I might even start taking regular photos of it to chart its evolution.


6-  Art

Kids aren’t too young for art on their walls. Together, you and your child could make some family art or choose a picture or design. I find that a little whimsy goes a long way for children’s bedroom art. I frame all my son’s certificates and display them along with a colour-in map of the world in which we follow his uncle’s travels.

So take another look at the photo above. Notice how the accent pieces tie the scheme together? How the art adds a touch of whimsy to the space? How wood is used throughout? How pink and yellow are featured in a black and white background scheme? How the plants are part of the room? How the lighting is industrial and coloured to fit the scheme? You can do this too. Hopefully you have gleaned a few easy tips for creating a stylish room for your children without spending too much time or money.


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Cosy living this autumn/winter

“Cosy – giving a feeling of comfort, warmth, and relaxation.”

oxford dictionary

How are we all feeling with the nights getting longer and the temperatures starting to drop? As the wind and rain blows the leaves from the trees and we wrap up warm I thought you’d enjoy  a look at all the different terms and ethos that embrace cosiness at their core. let’s get you cosy living and you can nuzzle in with a hot chocolate and a good book in the knowledge that you’re totally doing it right!

Inspiration for this post!


Well, unless you’ve been living under a rather large rock for the last few years, you’ll have heard of this one. In a nutshell Hygge is the Danish word that encompasses the feeling of taking pleasure from the presence of soothing things, a feeling of home, surrounded by the people and the things that you love in a comfortable, unguarded way.  Soft lighting, (especially candlelight), cosy, natural soft furnishings, furniture arranged to encourage conversation are all Hygge and a way to carry on cosy living.  

A cushion and a cosy through next on a comfy rocking chair with a stack of books ready to be read – cosy indeed


This is the Japanese term which encompasses the happiness of always being busy. From Japanese words iki, meaning “life,” and gai meaning “value,” it is sometimes translated as “your reason for being”. Ikigai encourages you to surround yourself with things you love while pursuing the things you like to do. It relates to care and attention and this translate into interiors. To have a home filled with Ikigai you must design for beauty and functionality using simplicity, raw materials , minimal clutter and natural light, in this way creating spaces for cosy living.

Ikigai office space., embracing nature. Image credit: Pinterest


The Norwegian term explores cosiness in a more social way and almost requires you to share your sanctuary to experience it. It is cosiness while enjoying the company of others and a connection with nature. Think of turning your armchair to face the window and enjoy looking at the weather with a cuppa under a blanket by firelight while chatting happily with family, now that’s cosy living.


Swedish word for taking time out to enjoy being cosy while eating comforting foods. Think of all those cinnamon buns you could eat under your blanket on your sofa!


Dutch word that is untranslatable and goes beyond meaning cosy – it encompasses everything from cosy to friendly, from comfortable to relaxing, and from enjoyable to gregarious. Your space can be Gezellig with warm colors, warm ambiance, many books, plants and knick-knacks. It ties in with another related Swedish term of Lagom. 

A Gezellig nook. photo credit : Pinterest


This Swedish term refers to the art of balanced living – having just the right amount of something and balancing work life and home life. Lgom is about decluttering your life and home creating an honest space where you can enjoy spending time with family and friends. Its encourages moderate, conscious consumption without clutter to create a peaceful home. This combined with minimalist Swedish furniture and the Lagom assertion that functionality is paramount mean that to follow a Lgom lifestyle ones home would be minimalist and clear of clutter with everything built to last with good storage. One wall decorated in wallpaper is Lagom as decorating the entire room would be too much. Sustainability is a big part of Lagom so reusing and up cycling as well as sourcing sustainable new pieces also follows Lagom. 

A Lagom kitchen/dinner with clean, simple lines and lots of storage. Photo credit


German word that encompasses sensations of coziness, contentment and warmth. The term can also be extended to refer to the sense of social acceptance and well-being. Think of attending a German Christmas market or having a beer in a beer garden with friends – that is the feeling this word covers. At home this feeling can be enhanced by creating a warm comfortable space to welcome guests. 


A Scottish Gaelic word meaning cosy and snug also evokes warm fires and cosy blankets and indeed the term “Coorie in” means snuggle in and can be used to invite you to join in a story, game, drink, meal or chat. It evokes a sense of snug welcome. Layering of soft furnishings and cushions as well as low level light combine to create this ambience at home so that you can enjoy cosy living.

Coorie in in this cosy living room. Photo credit.

All these terms feed into the current trend for cosiness which is clearly a reaction against the stresses we have all faced in the last nearly two years.  With trends like cottage core, grand millennial, the homebody economy is growing as we all dream of domestic cosy bliss. 

So choose one or a few to try out this winter in your home or take a little cheat and get the best elements from each by :

  • Layering Soft lighting and candlelight
  • Layering soft furnishings
  • Decluttering
  • Using warm, deep, rich colours
  • Surrounding yourself with things you love
  • Using scents like cinnamon, nutmeg and clove
  • Having plants indoors

Doing this will not only make your house cosy but turn it into your home. Enjoy and snuggle up! Up for more snuggly ideas? then take a look at my my how to make your child’s room cosy for winter post or at my guest post for Auntie K Parenting Consultant.

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An Introduction to Biophilic Design for Children’s Spaces from The Benholm Group

Children's rooms soften with plants

Biophilic design is the concept used to increase your connectivity to the natural environment. It affirms that bringing the outside in is soothing and beneficial.

One of the 2020 Design Trends for Children’s Rooms is biophilic design and it feeds into the use of colour palettes and materials based on nature. This month, I am pleased to say that I have a guest blog from The Benholm Group, a family-run business based in Falkirk, Central Scotland who specialise in a wide range of plant-related services for many commercial customers.  Mainly focusing on the Corporate Office market sector and the Hospitality market sector, they also work within various other sectors too, such as retail, education, health and the public sector. You will undoubtedly have seen their work if you have been to Edinburgh, Glasgow, Aberdeen or even the Edinburgh festival. At the heart of their business are the concepts of biophilic design. Their blog will be introducing the concepts of biophilic design to help us all get nature into our homes. 

You may have heard the term ‘biophilic design.'(1) It is something that we at Benholm Group (2)are passionate about. 

Just as adults do, children have an innate biological tendency to bond with the natural world known as biophilia. Biophilic design incorporates natural materials, natural light, plants and experiences of the natural world into our modern built environment.

Plants provide cleaner air, lower the risk of illness, boost mood as well as enhancing concentration and memory so its not hard to see why it’s a huge trend for interiors that is showing no signs of abating. In addition to the huge health benefits of bringing the outdoors in, another reason could be that you can have so much fun with it!

Recent studies add to the evidence that time spent in natural environments improves the health and wellbeing of both children and families. Nature has a calming impact ideal for babies and children

Studies (3) show plants are fantastically adept at absorbing gases through pores on the surface of their leaves, and not just carbon dioxide.  Plants can absorb many other gases including a long list of volatile organic compounds. They help eliminate benzene (found in some plastics, fabrics, pesticides and cigarette smoke) and formaldehyde (found in some cosmetics, dish detergent, fabric softener and carpet cleaner). These have been linked to numerous acute conditions, including asthma and nausea. 

When it comes to designing nurseries, many parents are looking beyond blue and pink – exploring gender neutral palettes and design concepts.  Plants and nature are a fantastic fit with these looks, softening spaces and adding a splash of colour. They look just as at home in fun, modern spaces as they do against darker colours and vintage furniture.

Plants bring softness to a design.

As inquisitive little minds and bodies outgrow cots and changing units, a bedroom redesign is on the cards! 

Studies show during early childhood, the main objective of environmental education should be the development of empathy between children and the natural world. As well as exploring and playing in nature with plants, one of the best ways to foster empathy with young children is to cultivate relationships with animals. Both real and imagined!

Young children are implicitly drawn to animals, especially baby animals. They are an endless source of wonder for children, fostering a caring attitude and sense of responsibility towards living things. Children interact instinctively and naturally with animals, talk to them, and invest in them emotionally. Children younger than age 6 reveal that as many as 90% of their dreams are about animals. There are many fun ways of supporting these developments – plants and animals go hand in hand!

Help your child learn empathy for the natural world by introducing them to plants at an early stage.

Playrooms are another perfect space for having fun with nature. Nordik Moss walls can work particularly well in lively spaces like playrooms as the moss acts as natural sound absorber – ideal for adjoining rooms, as well as being interesting to look at and touch. By encouraging imagination through role play, who knows how the next generation of designers, academics (hopefully some botanists too) will change the world 💚

Have fun with plants.





About Benholm:


We use plants creatively to enrich people, places and spaces.

Ever since the Benholm Group was established in 1993, we have been creating and maintaining beautiful planted environments for our customers using the principles of biophilic design.  

Our services include the provision of interior and exterior plant displays for many different types of organisations and market sectors.

Hopefully this blog has inspired you to bring the outside into your child’s room. Show me your plants and any fun kid friendly plant pots as I’m always on the look out! Next month my blog will carry on with the ever hopeful Spring theme of bring the outside in.